留学英美的学生常说,在国外用的最多的两个词大概要算是“Sorry”和“Thank you”了。出错了不要紧,关键是要主动诚恳地向对方道歉,其实这也是处理好人与人之间关系的一剂良药。感谢的话儿说不完,对于他人的帮助,千万别忘了说声“谢谢”。想了解有关“道歉和感谢”的常见表达法吗?请随我来吧!
I.Useful Expressions
A.Apologising
1.—Excuse me,just a minute.对不起,请稍等一下。
—That's all right(OK).没关系。
2.—You stepped on my foot.你踩了我的脚了。
—I'm very sorry,I didn't notice.对不起,我没留意。
3.—I'm sorry to have kept you waiting for such a long time.对不起,让你久等了。
—It doesn't matter.In fact I have been here only for ten minutes.没关系。实际上我才到十分钟。
4.—I'm sorry I've brought you too much trouble.对不起,我给你带来了太多的麻烦。
—Please don't worry about it.请别为此担心。
5.—I'm terribly sorry for what I have said to you.很抱歉对你说了这些话。
—Let's forget it./Forget it./Think nothing of it.算了,别去想它了。
6.—I must apologise to you for being angry with you.
我必须要对跟你发火的事表示道歉。
—Oh,it's nothing.Don't let a little thing like that worry you.没关系。不要为这样的小事感到不安。
7.—Pardon me for interrupting you.对不起,打扰你了。
—Never mind.没关系。
8.—Excuse me,but your car is in the way.对不起,你的车子挡道了。
—I'm really sorry.I'll move it at once.实在对不起,我马上就移开。
B.Thanks
1.—Thank you for inviting me to the party.谢谢你邀请我参加这个宴会。
—I'm so glad that you are able to come.很高兴你能来。
2.—Thank you very much indeed for your help.真的非常感谢您给我的帮助。
—That's all right.请不必客气。
3.—Thanks a lot for what you've done for me.多谢你为我所做的事情。
—It's a pleasure./My pleasure.我很乐意。(不用谢。)
4.—Thank you.谢谢。
—Not at all./Don't mention it./You are welcome.不用谢。
5.—Helen,here's a present for you fromme.海伦,这是我送给你的礼物。
—Oh,thank you.噢,谢谢你。
6.—Can I take those boxes for you?我可以帮你提那些箱子吗?
—Thanks.That's very kind /nice of you.谢谢。你真是太好了。
7.—Can I give you a hand?我能帮你吗?
—I can do it myself,but thank you all the same.我自己能做,但尽管如此,还是要谢谢你。
II.Cultural Information
1.In America,you will often come across situations in which you are supposed to(应该)say“Sorry”.But otherswill say it first.In fact,Americans don't care much who is responsible when a friction(摩擦)happens in daily life.If someone is troubled,a“Sorry”is always necessary.When this happens,the“Sorry”cools tempers even if the other person is hurt.
2.Americans like to say“Thank
you”.They think that“Thank you” means that you appreciate what someone has done for you although they are very small and very ordinary(普通的) things.Even when the waiter has done something for the President,the President will thank him.So people should say“Thank you”as often as possible to each other even if they are husband and wife.